This answer came from further down the board (which you should try to read):(posted 8411 days ago)"If you've been given a date for a court hearing for the possession, then I urge you to go. If you've got a family then the Judge will usually grant as much time as s/he can. If there is any chance that you can pay off your arrears, the court hearing is your chance to do it."
OK, so now tailor it to suit your particular situation. The point seems to be, go the any repossession hearing and talk to the judge (if the lender won't listen)?