Desperate: Partner of 18 yrs.. married for 18 mths.No kids Wife had affair and left with boss Mortgage in her sole name ( huge mistake ) I am still in house Have registered with land registry 15 mths ago wife will not reply or co-operate in any way with regard divorce or financial matters. Going through the court process.. dont have her address lenders Woolwich now have thier solicitors dealing with it. 15MTHS arrears. They wont talk to me or allow me to to pay arrears.Only my wife Mortgage is 35k~house is worth 95k I am in going to the court hearing for repossession on 10TH DEC I offered in writing to pay double payments:They wont listen I expect court process (divorce) to take another 4-6mths to conclude without her co-operation. I can if needed raise the 35k to pay them off but would need deeds tranfered in my name.otherwise i have paid her house off! I could then sell it my self and divide it fair thro solicitors. I can if need be pay off all the arrears £1800.00 I can if need be pay the mortgage until its sorted ( divorce)(posted 7830 days ago)What are my options.. Can i stop them takin my home from under me.Is it legal that they can refuse my payments as her husband in a divorce because i am not on the mortgage ? I find this law system totally mad.This person is deliberately destroying my life and i am helpless.please reply ASAP
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