Once again, thanks for your advice, although not very good news for me. I will write to Natwest and offer the terms you suggest and see what happens. This is going to sound cheeky but would you be willing to help write a structured letter that will be favourable to them and even stop/postpone court proceedings?(posted 7324 days ago)I would also appreciate your advice on the settlement figures given by First Plus as I think I may have grounds for complaint. It's a bit of a long winded story and I would prefer to disclose this information offline.
I am really in a panic over all of this and right now my easiest option would be to call it a day with partner, sell the house, clear all debt and go rent somewhere.
Look forward to hearing from you, you're being a great help!