Hey Lyn, we are all fighting a battle against the Banks and each of us deal with it in our own way; if it helps to stop one person thinking that suicide is an only option, then I am pleased that your family have managed to overcome those "demons on your shoulder". But there are so many people who "freeze", cannot act and seek desperate measures to try and remove a problem, and I am grateful to the many people on this site who have taken time to offer help, that I too, am not such a statistic. That's all!.(posted 7009 days ago)