1: I prefer the Alden. It uses a rotating light trap so nothing touches the film if you have it loaded correctly. I have used the Lloyd's, but after a period of use, it would build up grit in the felt light trap and scratch. Drove me nuts figuring out what was going on.(posted 8977 days ago)2: I use a stainless tank and reels. I hold the center of the reel between my thumb and finger and let it revolve as I pull off the film. Clean and easy and no hassle.
3: Photoflo or similar, and follow the other gentleman's suggestions regarding sponges, etc.