Jim, unfortunately once the negs are proccessed, there is no reversing the processsing. especially in the case of c-41 proccessing(posted 8656 days ago)You might be able the scans and save "SOME" of the negs (hopefully), but other than that, shooting the lady is the only retribution you will get my friend. Sorry.
Perhaps telling the pimple-headed hormone bags that it is black & White film not colour may save you this loss in the future :)
Regards,
Nauman