Hello Necommers

My name is Rick H. AND TODAY IS FRIDAY JUNE28th, 2002 and the reason I want to write this article is my concern over the reality of the SAFE-SUPPORT e-mail support group really a safe place ?

When i say SAFE I am using the word safe in the context to be free of domestic and sexual violence and exploitation. I am sadened to see so many SEXUAL PREDATORS, child molesters and my suspicion due to their hiding their real identities and their secrecy in how these Men in particulaly operate under the guise of "Well i am Homosexual--I have rights too! Wow!!!!lets wait a minute. This type of sexual deviancy regardless how you label it, and then ask others to endorse this lifestle for the sake of Political correctness is a Lie. Anyway, my point it doesnt matter regardless of your values and and how you interact with others especially on this WEBSITE is my utmost cocern, Afterall arent we ALL looking for a haven free of some elses negligent hand or abusive touch or eploitive ideas for their on twisted sick and selfish need on us a children.Now my question to all is ,ARE WE going to Break the cycle of abuse and neglect ? or Are we goint to perpetuate this pain onto others ?

The definition of INSANITY IS:

"Doing the same thing day in and day out, but expecting differnt results"

Now with that in mind and understanding the defintion of Insanity in a recovery type setting like the Safe4all web site and the Safe-support e-mail discussion group.. Are we a safe community to protect ourselves from others who still are predators and child molesters? ARE WE A nurturing group of people , to help each other grow up and heal in a safe enviorment from from DOMESTIC and SEXUAL VIOLENCE, isnt that the real purpose of this group ?

someone please help me understand if not ?

IT APPEARS TO BE MORE OF A sick kind of meeting place to hide out on the internet for men who are loosers and really knowing how to cultivate healthy , positive relationships face to face, but instead hide on the internet and Choose their prey....much like the shark who feeds on the Wounded fish that swims alone...because he/she doesnt have the strength to swim with the crowd or the school of other fish (so to speak) BECAUSE some self cetered fool violated them or expoited them like some cheap animal and they were TRAUMATIZED but their sick perpetrator and now they come to this website SAFE4ALL and i hope this group can do better with other men inm particular in how they welcome and trat necommers. It just so happens that i am stronger on the inside that most who who probably be in early recovery that would come to this website. I feel sad when others really who are very sick (emotionally and spiritually) inflict their pain and hurt onto other innocent others who may never have the opportunity to come back to a Safe place to find healing and comfort rather thatn a bunch of ravenous wolves ...who are calling out for their rights to expoit others. Why?

Lets get back to our primary purpose of this group and learn what cultivating a nurturing safe enviorment free of expotation and abuse and not be a pool of sharks having a shark frenzy on some poor wounded soul who may be so traumatized and broken fro whaterver reason then to only get blindsided by some sick broken man with the facade of being a safe friend...Wow i can say i dont need friend like that do you?

Rick H.

central fla

June28th, 2002

-- Anonymous, June 28, 2002