Subject: Response to Pastoral or Anti Family?

The domestic violence and divorce industry has become big business in America today. Under the guise of helping battered women billions in funding has passed from the State and Federal levels to help protect battered women. These abuse laws were passed to protect , not to destroy families. Since the folks involved in the industry are held completely unaccountable for their actions, they are free to hurl accusations and twist the true meaning of the laws on the books.

The laws were not intended to adress each and every indifference a married couple has and turn it into "abuse". Having an argeument with your spouse is not abuse. Certainly no resonable person advocates physically beating another, however ,that is the pretence of thes laws.

Somehow this "zero Tollerance " approach has morphed every mis feeling between couples to be viewed as a women getting brutally beat up, al la OJ Simpson. Consequently, many unsuspecting women and families are dragged into the folds of family court with no means of problem resolution. In fact, once there ,the system takes over and insists all people are fully prosecuted, regardless of the facts in the case. Even when a man is falsely accused and charges dismissed the process continues.

It becomes and entre' to divorce court.

Its become a money machine for lawyers and all the folks surrounding the industry. Somehow the billions in funding have to be justified and the judiciary must take in good families to justify their very existance. Once the radical feminist groups recieved all this funding to combat their created exaserbated problem ie women being beated (domestic violence), they found their shelters empty and their cause at a standstill. Solution? Change the laws. Most states passed statues that include harrassment in the DV podium . This means any feeling a women has can be considered domestic violence and prosecuted as such.

Yes there could be a situation where a man is beating his wife and that person should be prosecuted, however , limited viewing of domestic violence court in any vintage will reveal 98 percent of the cases are based on "Non violent" claims. The 'I fear" is the most common trump card that gets the ball rolling. The claim is usually encouraged by unethical lawyers or women shelter personel who make money off the couple litigating their differances.

No where along the line are the couple allowed to communicate so resolution in divorce or reconsiliation is vitually impossible.

Result : Family is destroyed, children left in disarray and the system of lawyers and advocates extort the families net worth.

Additionally, the radicial feminist groups recieving funding can justify more funding. SO the cycle continues. It is no accident that some States have 70 percent divorce rates and less then 10 percent of children are growing up in homes with their biological Mom and DAD.

Our very government and judicial system is attacking the family unit and the lives of children.

THink about it!

Our society does not have "Zero Tollerance for Murder"

WHy?

If a person plans and commits the murder of another it is murder in the 1st degree, punishable by death. If a person has a drinking problem, gets drunk and kills another while driving , its neglegent homiside. They will be jailed for a long time, be sued civily, but not death. They are both "MURDER" someones life has ended!

In the domestic violence world any accusation of fear enforces the full draconian measures of the law as if a women has been beated and battered to near death. SInce no proof is necessary for a women to obtain an exParte' restraining order(accusation only), men are easily criminalized beyond belief. THis has become common practice in family court. THe accepted standard and listed as a confrontational divorce. Maost cases would not even get close to divorce if women were educated on the full end game of the process they have begun. WOmen are being decieved and then get caught up and pressured not to drop charges. WOmen are threatened by women shelter personal that if they drop the false charges they will be prosecuted and loose their kids alltogether. It is a trap that unsuspecting women get involved in.

SInce there is no punishment for perjury when divorce is processed on the part of the women, lawyers, women advocates; the laws are being used arbitrarly and capritiously for a means of making money for lawyers and propagation of divorce. It is clear that the only people opposing changing these standards in legal practice are the people who are making money off the process.

It IS NOT about protecting women, its about making money at the expence of the family unit.

Yes Satan is at work here, through the courts of mans law and groups that firmly oppose marriage and family. We must note that the courts will embrace the radical feminist groups at shelters because they are bias and make each judicary lots of money.

Its very similar to the abortion industry. Aborion is not about a womens right to choose its abo the billions that are given and expanded each year from State and Federal levels to legally defend, clinics (which are held unaccountable) and advocacy efforts that promote abortion.

As a Catholic, I do not believe in abortion, however ,if women were truely given a choice, equal funding would be provided by the government (our tax dollars)for true choice.

True choice would be : A) Have the child and have it adopted to a caring and loving family.

B) Have the child and get help to support it and or education benifits for the mother to sustain herself.

C) Abortion as the last possible path on earth. All the Psychological effects this has on a women in later years "must" be explained.

Instead, billions in government funding go to "Only encourage abortion" for the benifit of the radical feminist who make "money " off the system.

Imagine going to a Chineese restaurant and opening the menu and it only says " Chineese food" $5.95???

Of course we would cry " where is the choice" !!

Abortion clinics and advocates only offer and promote one choice." Termination of life"

Why many women don't see that the advocacy efforts of radical feminist groups only limit their choices in life is beyond me.

THe Catholic Church MUST stand up and face the battle they are in with radical extreamist who are not interested in unity and propagation of peace on earth. They are bent on destroying marriage, the family unit and the Catholic Church.

Look at the group voice of the faithful, see how fast they organized and under the same organizational structure of the NOW organization. They have created an issue with child abuse with the Church and are preceeding to put the Church on the defensive and encouraging the Church to adhere to their party line.

Acceptance of Gay and Lesbian marriage

These groups will stop at nothing to destroy the family unit and the Catholic Church. They will use the media, the courts, our educational system and their own radical beliefs of world order to propagete their cause.

Its time to be proactive in the name of Jesus Christ.

-- Michale A (mg_comm@hotmail.com), June 18, 2003

Answers

Michale, from whom or from where did you copy that article?
Please give an author and/or an Internet site.
JFG

-- J. F. Gecik (jfgecik@hotmail.com), June 18, 2003.

John, This article was not copied from somewhere. The author is as posted.

Now , your responce on the content would be appreciated.

Thank You,

-- Michael A (mg_comm@hotmail.com), June 19, 2003.

Feminists are destroying are country! They have destroyed it with their beliefs, and all they want is to destroy the man. How can we change this, though. What laws can we change. These women are teaching are daughters terrible things.

-- LV (covincraig@aol.com), June 19, 2003.

LV, What you can do to save your daughter and the family unit is to get involved. Question people when they make claims of abuse and determine what their motive really is. Too many radical groups use the abuse excuse to propagate their cause and subsequently many of our legislatures run on the strong radical left party line . The abuse laws and abortion laws are the mainstay in supporting the constituients of the radical left Democrats. These people do not represent mainstream men and women from any party. Unfortunately, these folks have the ability to pass laws for surripticous reasons. In effect , our children are forcefully taught in public schools to embrace homosexuality, Lesbianism and transgender life style. These people, of course have the right to live as they choose, however, they do not have the right to impose their views onto our children, our Catholic Church and to society. Their additude is "if you are not with us(Gay, Lesbianian community) then you are against us". THis adage does not hold true for most Catholics. I for one am not against their lifestye, I do choose not to live by it and refuse to allow my children to be force fed their system of beliefs. Catholics today MUST realize the Church is under attack, Prayer is essential, however, we must stand up in the court of mans law for what we believe in. THese attacks on the Family and Church WILL NOT stop. As you might have viewed in a previous post even the Orthodox Jewish faith has recognized the governments attack against their families and Fathers.

YOu must contact your legislatures and demand Family Law court reform. Eliminate the radical feminist from our courthouses or provide equal representation for mainstream Catholics and all people that believe in strong family values.

When groups attack the Catholic Church take the effort to question who they are ? Question them many levels down. WHen you get close to the truth you will see them squirm.

God Bless you

-- Michael A (mg_comm@hotmail.com), June 19, 2003.

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Pastoral or Anti Family?

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-- Daniel Hawkenberry (dlm@catholic.org), October 09, 2004.