THE CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE BY SDQAgreenspun.com : LUSENET : Ask Jesus : One Thread |
[pre marital sex isn't self destructivemarriage is a concept invented by people to bound 2 people together for different reasons
but what really gives marriage a meaning and a value is love
marriage is a word
marriage is a formality
marriage is a thing on paper
marriage by itself is nothing
it's the love and all the things that come along with that love that give marriage it's meaning
married people can also easily divorce
but when you really love someone so much that you want to have sex with that person,then i think you already are married
so pls stop this marriage thing and maybe realise that it's a manmade thing and love isn't
it's a thing bound to this society where we live in
imagine for example that you and your girlfriend are on uninhabited island 600 years ago and you guys have been stuck there already for some years and the chance is that someone finds you is quiete little,are you gonna spend all your life not-having sex because you're not married? but you really love each other and want to be together
without the state,without the church(any church)there would never be no marriage
without politics and religion there would never be no marriage
but the true meaning behind it has always been,the true meaning why 2 people want to be together;and it will always be
regardless of society,time or place]-sdqa
-- PUNKER & SDQA (greg_pisahov@hotmail.com), January 20, 2005
600 years ago??? 1405 A.D. Hmmm? It seems that the "concept" of marriage has gone beyond a man-made contract between two people. In reality, the stranded couple have no choice, but to be united til death. They ain't going anywhere off that island. No choice! Nature has tied the knot for them, its a given. In the civilized world, we have relationships and choices. We have courtships and endeavors. We have getting to know each other. Then, the marriage becomes the best thing for both mates based on experience, judgement, and, most importantly, love. That island of yours has reduced your senses and judgement to a primitive default. Then you and your "wife" can look back to what brought your marriage to a "reality". Interesting. And, you don't believe in marriage. I can see why...........
-- rod (elreyrod@yahoo.com), January 20, 2005.
BUT EVEN IF THEY ARE STUCK FORVER ON THE ISLAND AND LIVE TO DEATH TOGETHER THEY ARE STILL NOT OFFICIALLY MARRIED
-- PUNKER (GREG_PISAHOV@HOTMAIL.COM), January 20, 2005.
That is a moot issue for anyone who does not recognize Holy Matrimony..........
-- rod (elreyrod@yahoo.com), January 20, 2005.